Category: Authenticity

The curse of intelligence: How we limit ourselves by being human knowers instead of human beings

Chantal BreytenbachAuthenticity / Experiential Learning / Future Self / LEAP / LEAP Thinker / Meaning / Purpose / Real Self / Self-Cultivation / Self-Discovery / Self-InnovationLeave a comment

You might think that your life would be easier and infinitely more fulfilling if your IQ were higher. Don’t smarter people have it easier, because they always have the answers? And don’t they get the best career opportunities and make more money than anyone else? In our most recent blog post, Chantal explores some of the downsides of being highly intelligent or a high achiever to illustrate how the LEAP Journey might help those individuals who have become stuck, because they have too many options, or because they are afraid of failing or making a mistake. […]

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A fresh perspective on The Authenticity Paradox

Chantal BreytenbachAuthenticity / Future Self / LEAP / Purpose / Real SelfLeave a comment

In a thought-provoking Harvard Business Review article, The Authenticity Paradox, Herminia Ibarra argues that having a too simplistic understanding of what authenticity means, can severely hinder your growth and your ability to make an impact as a leader. Yet, ironically, we believe she steps into the same trap of viewing authenticity too narrowly. In our latest blog post, Chantal explains why we think so, and how we, on The LEAP Journey, view and approach authenticity. […]

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Why it’s sometimes bad advice to be yourself

Chantal BreytenbachAuthenticity / Future Self / LEAP / Real Self / Self-Cultivation / Self-Discovery / Self-InnovationLeave a comment

So, you’re interviewing for a new job. Or you are going on a date with someone for the first time. Naturally, you feel a bit nervous, so you ask your friend for some advice and they dispense that old adage: “You’ll be fine. Just be yourself.” In her TED Talk The Art of Being Yourself, Caroline McHugh contemplates the ridiculousness of this little piece of advice. People will tell you to “just be yourself” as if that is the easiest thing in the world and as if it is a completely novel idea that you haven’t considered. However, as most of us know, if it were simple to “just be ourselves”, most of us would just do it and reap the benefits.

In this blog post, Chantal discusses the situations in which it is bad advice to “just be yourself” and the steps you need to follow to allow your real self” to work for you. […]

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